From One Mother to Another:

As a mom, I know how unpredictable life can be. Believe me. Some days you’re juggling school drop-offs and work calls, other days you’re taking afternoon naps and playing in the park with your kids. Between all the beautifully chaotic moments, I’ve seen firsthand as an experienced estate lawyer that estate planning in California isn’t just for wealthy families — it’s for every parent who wants to protect their children with peace of mind.

How Do You Know If You Need an Estate Plan?

As you know, when you become a parent, everything changes. And when you have a tiny human depending on you for love, care, and a future, you owe it to them to have an estate plan in place that gives them the ultimate protection. It isn’t just a “nice thing to have” — it’s an act of love and responsibility. A simple will or living trust ensures that, no matter what, your children will be cared for by people you choose. It lets you name guardians, and decide how assets are distributed. Without it, the state’s laws — not your wishes — end up deciding who raises your children, and how.

An Estate Plan Isn’t Just About Money

Estate planning for parents is about more than money. It’s about clarity and security. A living trust or comprehensive plan can help avoid lengthy probate, protect your family’s privacy, and spare your loved ones from stress during emotional times. And even if you don’t think you have many assets, estate planning still matters — because what’s at stake is your children’s safety, their future, their inheritance, and your peace of mind.

Most importantly, having a plan lets you parent now, and protect later. It means you don’t leave difficult decisions for your children or loved ones to figure out during a stressful, heart-wrenching time. It means your values, wishes, and love carry forward, even when you can’t speak for yourself.

If you’re a parent who knows you “should” but you “haven’t yet,” let me tell you: there’s no “perfect time.” The best time to get started is now. If you’d like help building a simple, clear, and compassionate estate plan for your family — parent to parent — I’m here for you. Call me for a free consultation.


Brittany Britton, Esq.
Founder, Best Coast Estate Law, P.C.